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And Stranger Danger replied…

ravenjade:

ultraclumsyrbot:

Saying that I am wasting his time. For arguing sexual and social equality and dignity. 

Ahahaha, sure you’re not using this for procrastinating?

…no.

And Stranger Danger replied…

Saying that I am wasting his time. For arguing sexual and social equality and dignity. 

Oh life. I love you and your sweet, sweet timing.

I am currently, as in RIGHT NOW, writing a paper about how violent ‘gonzo’ pornography is detrimental to the fight to stop sexual assault and is negatively affecting human sexuality, especially that of women. I got a plenty of fish message about 10 minutes ago with the proposition that I should consider adult entertainment because of my “pretty face which the camera obviously loves”. I declined the offer and stated what fortuitous timing it was considering the circumstance. Mr. Stranger said:

“i have a degree in psych and i would love to argue. i make gonzo porn lol
and i dont think it benifits their fight…why should it nor does it denegrate thier position…”

So you think that depiction of women being strangled, slapped, dominated, and both literally and symbolically sh*t on is not degenerative? I don’t mean this rhetorically.

Do you not believe that, perhaps, men might emulate this behaviour and justify it as it becomes more normative in depictions of sexuality? That maybe, because they’ve seen scenes where no means yes, they might carry that into a relationship and cross the line into abuse or neglect of female sexual autonomy? Do you not think that a (male) dominant social order which encourages female subordination for male pleasure, and tells women to lay back and enjoy it, may pressure women to endure even if they feel disrespected?

He did not respond. “lol”, indeed.

Conditioning

Me: Oh mom, you can use that sparkling water in the fridge for whatever. I don’t really want it, but I just buy a drink whenever I eat at work in case I choke.

Both: …

Me: I guess that sounds neurotic.

Mom: What have I done to you?

Dear ex who said he’d be more attracted if I lost weight,

I’ve lost 12 pounds. Suck it.

Not a bad night

Karaoke. Guy I had a thing about three years ago happened to be there and even hotter than before. Boner through the roof. Through the goddamn motherfucking roof Icoulddie.